When you are a junior in high school, things start to get hectic. People start warning you about how junior year is the most difficult and of how you desperately need to start searching for colleges.
When you are a senior, people tell you how it's the least stressful year. What they don't tell you is that everyone - and I mean everyone - starts talking about college.
People are constantly talking about it – and not just students, either. You could be at the grocery store and have a conversation with the person behind you in line asking where you're applying for college.
I think it’s important to understand that although college is becoming a large part of high school students' thought processes; it shouldn't be something that takes up your brain space twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week.
A teenager should still have the freedom to think about other things, like plans for the weekend or sports events. It’s important to remember that it is not everyone's business to need to know where you're applying.
College application season is not meant to force you to show-and-tell on demand, become competitive or put you on the defensive. Remember, it’s always your choice whether or not you’d like to share that information. In my personal opinion, there’s no need to answer every single person's questions about college decisions, applications, fees and scholarships.
During application season, even the best of friends often enter into intense debates regarding which colleges are “better” than others, but they need to be reminded that it's not about any kind of competition.
Whether a student chooses to go to an Ivy League school or a Junior College, I believe the education a student receives depends on the experience they make for themselves, not the school’s reputation or the criteria in which it takes to be granted admission.
At the end of the day, not to mention every college application season, we must remember: not every person is right for every college. It doesn’t make that person or school any better than the next.
If we can all keep that in mind, I think all of us will have a much more pleasant college application season and overall admissions experience.