This article lists a dozen tips for asking for college savings cash
as an alternative to traditional material gifts.
It is a summary of the longer
How To Ask Friends and Family for Money for a Child's College Savings Plan
1. The only way to get a cash gift to a child's college savings plan is to ask.
If you don't ask, you definitely won't get anything.
2. Ask for college savings cash at the usual gift-giving opportunities
, such as birthdays, holidays, religious celebrations, graduation and other milestones.
Also ask during college savings month in September.
3. Give friends and family a choice
between traditional material gifts and money.
This helps alleviate the awkwardness that comes with asking for money. Alternately, give the giver a choice between making a donation to a tax deductible charity or contributing to the child's college savings plan.
4. Sell unwanted gifts
on eBay or other sites in exchange for money for a college savings plan.
5. Identify the purpose of the gift
when asking for money.
People feel more comfortable giving money when they know that the money will be used for a worthwhile purpose like paying for the child's college education.
6. Do not ask for a specific amount of money
, as it will make the giver feel guilty if they can't afford to give that much.
Asking for too much money may also be considered rude and may offend some people. Don't be greedy.
7. Use only positive words
when asking for money.
Keep it simple and straightforward. Be polite.
8. Let someone else do the asking on your behalf
and reduce the awkwardness.
9. Many 529 college savings plans offer gift certificates as an option.
Some will send email to your friends and family to ask for contributions on your behalf.
10. Third party social networking college savings sites will ask your friends and family for contributions on your behalf
, but these sites may charge a fee for their services.
11. It is still considered a bit rude to ask for contributions to the child's college savings plan on formal invitations
to a party, shower or reception.
The purpose of an invitation is ask the guest to participate in your special occasion, not to solicit gifts.
12. Send a personalized handwritten thank you note when you receive a contribution
to your child's college savings plan, the same as you would for a more traditional gift.
Sending a thank you note encourages repeat gifts.