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what should i do?
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Posted 17 days ago I just turned 18 and i have being going out with this guy who is 25 years old and he loves me a lot and i dont think i feel the same way about him. Last night i heard his friend saying he wants to marry me and his family loves me and we talk but i dont love this guy and am too young to get married and i dont know what to tell him everytime i want to end things i feel so guilty and am stuck i just dont want to hurt him what should i do or say .....? |
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| Posted 17 days ago Lots of men say that they "love," but only to get what they want. If you plan on pursuing an education, put that education first on your priority list. It is nearly impossible to juggle a relationship with the college life. You need to tell these guys that if they REALLY actually love you, that they will wait patently for you to complete your education. If they do not respect and support that decision, then they can't logically be offended if you choose to ignore their requests. Also, tell them the truth if they ever ask what your feelings are towards them. It might cause them pain, but it is better to tell them the truth then to feed them continually on lies. |
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| Posted 17 days ago the sooner you tell him better.. the more you wait the hard its gonna be and the more its going to hurt..... reguardless its goin hurt so you minus well do it now.... love ? you knew you didnt love him how he loved you why didnt you say something early......YOU NEED TO JUST TELL HIM HOW U FEEL |
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| Posted 16 days ago I agree with ArielB161 you jus need to go back to good ol' communication;-] |
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| Posted 15 days ago You should definately let him know that you are not ready to get married. He should respect your decision. Both of you are young so there's much time left for marriage. Relax.......live a little. Marriage will come soon enough. Now get off the computer and tell him. Good Luck |
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| Posted 15 days ago Talk to your boyfriend as soon as possible. Tell him politely how you feel, and make sure nobody else is around. Never lie about love, and tell him you are not ready for that kind of decision. True true love will make him wait for you. Love is not a parallel feeling. It's grows at a different pace for everyone. |
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| Posted 3 days ago Well i think that you should just thing over and make the right choice for you. if i was going through that i would tell him how i feel becasue he will end up forcing you to do things that you dont want to do. I also think that you should tell him that its over becasue you will feel uncomtable being with him. You are young and there is alot of other guys out there who you will fall in love with. So you just need some time to think and hopefully you will make the right choice.
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| Posted 3 days ago Don't do something you don't want to do. It will probably hurt him but he will heal and find someone else. If you go through with it to make him happy then you will be miserable! I hope this helps. best of luck |
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| Posted 3 days ago I agree with the other comments, you have to be true to yourself and to your boyfriend. If he really care for you he would want you to be honest. Life is just starting for you enjoy it. |
