So idk if its meno pause or whatever but my mama has been a pain in the arss and i cant take it any more!!!!! sadley i live with her so thers no escaping her horridness... can anyone relate? 

i can soooo relate to this my mom always says she is gonna do somethn but never does....sooooo gettn on my nerves!!!!

My mother and I fight a lot. It's because we are so much alike. But honestly, that's just how moms are. Believe me...I have 2. When my mother is really starting to annoy me to the point of no return (POTO) I just go in my room and read or watch a movie. Argueing gets me nowhere and sometimes it just isn't worth it.

                                                                        Rebekah

im so glad im not the only person in this world who feels that way about their mother....mine....ugh.....horrific....i feel she doesnt trust anything i do.....its like she's out to get me for ANYTHING...i just know im not going to be that way toward my kids.....its just an example of what i DONT want to be...

Not at all! my mom can have a wierd sense of humor sometimes but other than that we get along fine! maybe you guys should try finding something you like about your moms.

Well, personally, my mom gets on my nerves too, especially when she starts going on about serial killers (I have no idea where she gets some of these things). Plus she hasn't let me stay home alone (except after school) in about 2 years! I feel like I'm being baby-sat or something. I really can't wait to get out on my own & be myself.

Oh and AstridC8, you need to chill! We're just venting, so please BACK OFF! Thanks.

i can relate. its a national phenomenon of madness lol.

Fastweb1802 says ...

If I were you and it is that bad then why don't you speak to a doctor about it.  When hormones put your body through the "change of life" it is not fun for anyone but it happens.  I bet your mom hates it more than you because she has to go through it.  The hot flashes, mood changes, saying one thing and doing another and most of all wanting to be happy, but can't!

Basically, you need to read up on how to help her, so you can live together during this natural change of life.  Remember she is still your  mom and she didn't ask for menapause to take over her life.  And it's only temporary, so give her time to relax, arguing will only get her more on edge.  In other words don't encourage her to get upset, she can't help her emotions right now.  Be smarter than that, she will thank you and someday you might be able to laugh about it. 

So, do some research on the web, or ask a doctor, since there are many ways to help people cope through this time.  Please don't make her feel guilty, it isn't her fault but it can be controlled.  Don't forget, if your a female you'll go through it someday too and I pray your children will help you. 

 

 

Interesting idea, but sometimes moms (or just parents) are annoying.

 

okay a couple of years ago i was saying the same thing you guys are how you cant wait to get out of the house , or how you just want them to leave you alone or that they dont trust you. But I'll bet you havent given them a reason to trust you, and to remind you these are your parents not your friends at school. The are under alot of stress as well....have you ever thought about the fact that they may think your a pain in the butt just as much as they are.

Truth is you have to give a little to get what you want, so what she is watching you like a hawk she loves you and only wants what is best for you so get over it one day you are going to look back and thank them for everything they have done for you.

And yes i totally agree with AstridC8 in a few years your kids are going to be on another blog site ( or maybe the same one ) saying the same things about you.

I hope this topic ends soon!  Don't forget,  all of you who complain about a mom getting on your nerves, she didn't have to have you. 

And I bet if you just voted for the first time, most of you complainers are pro-abortion.  But  she did the right thing and put you on this earth so appreciate it, you wouldn't even be on this site complaining if it wasn't for YOUR MOM! 

Find another site to vent, this site is about finding a way to make your life better with Scholarships and Education.

I totally feel you on this one. I mean my mom is kinda the same way. Here's some advice--Agree with everything she says even if its not true and stay out of the way. Get her a nice gift or a day alone to her favorite place. This will give her room to think and value her daughter. Maybe she'll come around and if not then I guess your just gonna have to deal with it. Sorry

janeen5t says ...

Fastweb1802 says ...

I hope this topic ends soon!  Don't forget,  all of you who complain about a mom getting on your nerves, she didn't have to have you. 

And I bet if you just voted for the first time, most of you complainers are pro-abortion.  But  she did the right thing and put you on this earth so appreciate it, you wouldn't even be on this site complaining if it wasn't for YOUR MOM! 

Find another site to vent, this site is about finding a way to make your life better with Scholarships and Education.

 

Ha ha, my mom DIDN'T have me...she ADOPTED me! So, yeah she annoys me but I love her so hush!

       What a wonderful mother you had to have adopted you.  I'm glad you love her.  I hope she loves you.  So what's so funny about that.

Fastweb1802 says ...

janeen5t says ...

Fastweb1802 says ...

I hope this topic ends soon!  Don't forget,  all of you who complain about a mom getting on your nerves, she didn't have to have you. 

And I bet if you just voted for the first time, most of you complainers are pro-abortion.  But  she did the right thing and put you on this earth so appreciate it, you wouldn't even be on this site complaining if it wasn't for YOUR MOM! 

Find another site to vent, this site is about finding a way to make your life better with Scholarships and Education.

 

Ha ha, my mom DIDN'T have me...she ADOPTED me! So, yeah she annoys me but I love her so hush!

       What a wonderful mother you had to have adopted you.  I'm glad you love her.  I hope she loves you.  So what's so funny about that.

The fact that some people don't consider that not everyone lives with their biological family. And she does love me very much!

Amberclassof12 says ...

My mom has been acting really wierd.

She started going tanning everyday and losing weight.

She also got friends. Yes, i said friends.

She has been very neglectful and harch too. :(

Hi Amber, I'm sorry you feel something is "weird" about your mom.  I know sometimes people make changes, but they don't have to be "neglectful" as you mentioned.  Please reply back if you need someone to share with.  Maybe I can help you figure out the problem.

I'm a mom too, my daughter is in her first year of Law School.  I was a divorced parent since she was 2 and I sacrificed alot to give her the best life.  I'm here if you need me :) so don't feel alone.  I do my best to help others!