Keep Calm & Wait for College Admissions Decisions
The classic saying, “a watched pot never boils,” applies in this situation.
February 19, 2015
Every year, the stress of senior year certainly begins to build during the anxiety attack caused by filling out college applications.
But, even worse than the worry most seniors have while filling out the application is the anxious, impatient time afterwards when you wait for admissions decisions to arrive.
As college admissions officers work tirelessly to choose the right students for their respective schools, students worry about everything that could go wrong.
However, here are some tips that should take some of the burden off your shoulders during the almost unbearable waiting period.
It’s hard enough to wait to hear back from the admissions team, but anxiously waiting and being irritable around the house and at school will not speed up the process.
The classic saying of “a watched pot never boils” is certainly true in this situation. Just be patient, and everything will be completed in due time.
Don’t Lose Hope
Often times during this prolonged wait, students began to worry that they didn’t get in.
“Maybe the college is taking forever because I wasn’t good enough.”
“Maybe there were too many other qualified students.”
Maybe this, maybe that. Your application has already been submitted, and you have spent 12 years doing everything in your power to set a foundation that would enable you to get into college.
Nothing can be changed now, so there is no need to worry about what could have or what should have happened. Relax!
Although your application is already in, if you do get accepted colleges will still expect to see a final transcript. This means that you cannot lose focus in the final semester of your senior year, or you can seriously jeopardize your acceptance.
Remain focused on the task at hand, and don’t risk throwing everything away at the end of the run.
Don’t let the stress of the wait cause you to miss out on activities that could be helping you pass the time. Hang out with friends, go to sporting events, have a good time!
Social activities will keep your mind off of the future and help pass the time with friends that you might not see as often after the year comes to its completion.
Don’t Dwell on the Issue
Most of your friends are bound to be going through the same issue as you, and it will do no good to continue to talk about the waiting game most high school students have to play.
Maintain your friendships by talking about the things that actually interest you, not the things that have you stressing out.
It’s never a good thing to throw all your marbles in either circle when it comes to college acceptance. The best advice of course is to hope for the best, but prepare for the worst.
Always have a back-up plan in case your dream college doesn’t work out. If it does, great! If not, at least you have another plan to turn to and are not left without an institution to attend in the fall.
Above all, don’t let the waiting game get the best of you. Every high school student across the country is in the same boat, and all of the college admissions officers are working as fast as they can to deliver the news to anxious students everywhere.
Be patient, stay focused, and don’t let the waiting game dominate your senior year.
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