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It's Not Whether You Win or Lose
Richard Pound
May 11, 2009
I feel like Rip Van Winkle! You remember him, the old man who settles down under a shade tree and falls into a deep sleep only to awaken 20 years later to return to a village he no longer recalls. Did I fall asleep back in 1985 and wake up to discover the concept of youth sports and the philosophy of our young people changed beyond all comprehension?
In the mid-1980s when I was being recruited in football and lacrosse out of the Watertown, NY area, no one had ever heard of college recruiting services. The idea of a “dedicated travel team” for every sport was equally unknown. And the high-pressure recruiting tactics to get talented student-athletes to commit before he ever visited the school were way out of bounds.
I’ve spent the last two decades educating students to have balance in their lives and to develop a well-rounded character. And yet, I am faced with the reality that our society has lost its perspective on why we participate in youth and high school athletics in the first place. Aren’t we supposed to have fun? Don’t we enjoy the idea of working as a team to accomplish a shared goal? Aren’t there lessons to be learned in the art of competing well regardless of wins and losses?
Maybe it’s my old-fashioned upbringing or my passion for seeing student-athletes grow and develop in their sport. But it seems that our society is fast losing its grasp on why children are playing sports in the first place. I understand the allure of the supremely gifted athlete who converts his skills into fame and fortune. The majority of us, folks, are not nearly as gifted.
The NCAA’s Role in Recruiting
The NCAA is the governing body of collegiate athletics in the United States, and represents the institution in which we place our trust to set the standard for balancing academics and athletics. Still, even the NCAA appears to contradict itself.
A January 16, 2009 AP article, “Got game in 7th grade? NCAA says you’re a prospect”, describes an NCAA ruling giving in to the youth movement in college basketball recruiting. The NCAA has changed the definition of a “prospect” from 9th grade to 7th grade—for men’s basketball only—to nip a trend in which some college coaches were working at private, elite camps and clinics for seventh- and eighth-graders. One member of the committee was quoted as saying, “The fact that we’ve got to this point is really just a sign of the times.” Let me tell you: when I was little, the adults in my life used to change my behavior and never once did they let it slide because it was a sign of the times!


SheniaH
over 2 years ago
Being on time means being 10 minutes early!
DanetzaY
over 2 years ago
I belief that if you are really talented on any sport and you want to do more than just play in a community league...than go for it.!!!! show what you have and do as you will to reach for the top. Winning is a nice feeling but its ok to lose...because losing can motivate that person to accomplish his or her dreams and they can see what strategy they need to work on...People should just know what they are capable of.
DaC13
over 2 years ago
Striving to win is important...putting forth your best effort, working together to achieve the same goal, fairness and sportsmanship, etc....are all key ingredients to be a successful athlete. But, let's be real people. "Winning" is the goal. No one strives to lose or come in last place. No athlete, coach, or athletic director hopes their team DOESN'T win the game, the award or the championship title. Do you really know athletes who, as they're putting their uniform on, taping up and going over their game plan, competition routine or visualizing the track, say "I really don't want to win today. I think I'll let my competitor take this one." NO...you don't!! If you're not in it to win it, why are you competing??? If you want exercise, recreation and team-building, you can play in a rec league rather than on a travel team. You can play intramural sports at the local gym rather than tryout for the high school or collegiate team. You can swim, run and tumble at your leisure without being on a team.
garay_ernesto10
over 2 years ago
A winner makes commitment. A loser makes promises
IgdaliaC
over 2 years ago
To me winning isn't everything, wether i come in first or last on the track, i just want to finish the race. That's all that matters to me. As what Vince Lombardi said, "winning isn't everything, but striving to win is."
mkim3392
over 2 years ago
winning or losing does not matter, inly thing that matters to me is that i enjoyed the game
Malone
over 2 years ago
doesnt make a difference, win or lose
LatashaJ19
over 2 years ago
Well me not to me just as long as we win or lose...
JordanS218
over 2 years ago
where is our morals or decency, is all that matters now is money?
root of all evil... there is truth in that